5 common questions from new students

Is it normal to meet many new people but still miss having one or two close friends?

Yes, this is actually very common.

It often takes time to find people you truly connect with. The fact that you have already met many people is an excellent start. Be curious about the people you meet, listen to them and share what you feel comfortable sharing. This is often how good friendships grow.

How do I know if I have chosen the right study programme?

This is a question that many students ask themselves, particularly during the first few months.

Give the study programme some time before reaching any conclusions. Feel free to talk with lecturers, study advisers or students who are a year or two ahead of you.

Remember that higher education opens many doors. Your interests, the experiences you gain and what you do in your free time are often equally important as the study programme itself.

Is it normal to miss my family, partner or pet?

Yes, it’s completely normal.

Some people miss their parents, partner, dog or cat. Feeling homesick is a sign that you are missing your loved ones. Most students find that as they become more familiar with student life, they also become less homesick. If you miss animals, you can actually sign up to be a pet sitter. Keep an eye on our events. Every so often, we invite students to activities such as “Dog Cuddles on Campus”!

“Planning your next trip home can help because it gives you something to look forward to.” – Marianne Ingeborg Karlsen

What should I do if I don’t feel like I fit in with my buddy group?

Try to give the group some time.

People often seem more interesting and easier to get on with as you get to know them better. If this does not help, you can contact your student adviser or the buddy coordinator at your programme association and ask whether it’s possible to swap groups.

Is it normal to feel happy but still a bit overwhelmed at the same time?

Yes.

Many people perceive starting university as a time filled with new experiences and impressions. You meet new people, learn your way around a new place and perhaps live on your own for the first time.

A useful piece of advice is to be curious about the experience. Consider keeping a diary, so you can write down some thoughts or feelings during the first few weeks and read them again a couple of months later This often helps to see how much has changed and how much has fallen into place.

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